Monday, November 30, 2020

Divide and Conquer ~ Monday, November 30, 2020

All my life, I have been quiet, mother.
      My tongue,
            my mother tongue unknown to me.
                  Konkani, 
                        a language, 
                              my mother tongue.

Language escapes my grasp,
      so I remain quiet,
            mother, I will sit quietly
                  in the empty corner
                        facing away, facing within,
                              inside, outside, reside
                                    on the slippery slope
                                          to mind within no-mind.

Learned French for all four years
      during high school, 
            spent one week in Paris
                  for Spring Break in college,
                        totally anticlimactic,
                              my friend was no longer my friend.

My friend became my enemy,
      I learned white people take care of their own.

Yet, I continued to study
      what was available to learn,
            Russian in college instead of Polish,
                  languages filled a gap,
                        a hole from my absence,
                              not growing up in India,
                                    in Bombay or Goa,
                                          learning Hindi
                                                or Konkani.

Languages became my fascination,
      to fill a void,
            an emptiness,
                  a lack of opportunity,
                        who provides encouragement to:
                              non-black children,
                                    non-white children,
                                          non-latinx children?

In this life, the rest of the world matters...
      very little to grown adults,
            especially during the 70s,
                  no one seemed interested...
                        their discrimination bias
                              kicked in, along with sex
                                    in the back of a van
                                          during recess.

For we are the forgotten, latchkey kids
      who stole, set fires, and got good grades,
            while living with alcoholics,
                  drug abusers, workaholics,
                        immigrants from Asia
                              who could never fit in,
                                    always minorities
                                          without community.

England to New York to California
      to Memphis to Chicago to Nowhere,
            too old now for recognition,
                  as a child it would have mattered,
                        as an adult, I have nothing,
                              when no one shows concern
                                    adults suffer the loss
                                          of participation
                                               in love and life,
                                                     mother.

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